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		By: Mishka		</title>
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					<description><![CDATA[I wouldn&#039;t get rid of that Secret Happy Special Place yet, Chutney.  Being happy is a rare thing, and what is a lie to one person is truth to anouther. 

   It seems to me that &quot;being your true self&quot; is code for &quot;dropping some baggage&quot;.
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I wouldn&#8217;t get rid of that Secret Happy Special Place yet, Chutney.  Being happy is a rare thing, and what is a lie to one person is truth to anouther. </p>
<p>   It seems to me that &#8220;being your true self&#8221; is code for &#8220;dropping some baggage&#8221;.</p>
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		By: Mishka		</title>
		<link>https://www.makingchutney.com/2004/01/27/three-lies-they-sold-you-in-therapy/comment-page-1/#comment-619</link>

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		<pubDate>Wed, 28 Jan 2004 07:10:12 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I wouldn&#039;t get rid of that Secret Happy Special Place yet, Chutney.  Being happy is a rare thing, and what is a lie to one person is truth to anouther. 

   It seems to me that &quot;being your true self&quot; is code for &quot;dropping some baggage&quot;.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I wouldn&#8217;t get rid of that Secret Happy Special Place yet, Chutney.  Being happy is a rare thing, and what is a lie to one person is truth to anouther. </p>
<p>   It seems to me that &#8220;being your true self&#8221; is code for &#8220;dropping some baggage&#8221;.</p>
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		By: chutney		</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 28 Jan 2004 01:46:22 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[&lt;em&gt;If a person is unhappy and seeks to be happy, then that person must be open to changes that cannot be known beforehand.&lt;/em&gt;

Changes that are, by definition, impossible.  If you&#039;re not already yourself, then who are you?  Maybe the problem is that you are already yourself.  But that wouldn&#039;t square with America&#039;s obsession with the gnostic myth of the orphic child.  Sigh.  We&#039;re back to my Secret Happy Special Place again, aren&#039;t we, Curtiss?]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><em>If a person is unhappy and seeks to be happy, then that person must be open to changes that cannot be known beforehand.</em></p>
<p>Changes that are, by definition, impossible.  If you&#8217;re not already yourself, then who are you?  Maybe the problem is that you are already yourself.  But that wouldn&#8217;t square with America&#8217;s obsession with the gnostic myth of the orphic child.  Sigh.  We&#8217;re back to my Secret Happy Special Place again, aren&#8217;t we, Curtiss?</p>
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		By: Curtiss Leung		</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Jan 2004 23:10:47 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[#3 is especially pernicious.  How can one be other than oneself?  If a person is unhappy and seeks to be happy that, then that person must be open to changes that cannot be known beforehand.

And don&#039;t get me started on how #3 ties into authenticity....]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>#3 is especially pernicious.  How can one be other than oneself?  If a person is unhappy and seeks to be happy that, then that person must be open to changes that cannot be known beforehand.</p>
<p>And don&#8217;t get me started on how #3 ties into authenticity&#8230;.</p>
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