define('DISALLOW_FILE_EDIT', true); define('DISALLOW_FILE_MODS', true); Comments on: Losing my religion http://www.makingchutney.com/2004/01/20/losing-my-religion/ One part facial hair. Two parts moxy. Mon, 26 Jan 2004 21:49:41 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=7.0 By: chutney http://www.makingchutney.com/2004/01/20/losing-my-religion/comment-page-1/#comment-615 Mon, 26 Jan 2004 21:49:41 +0000 http://www.makingchutney.com/posts/2004/01/20/losing-my-religion/#comment-615 limpet,

That’s right when I left the ministry too. Small world. What tradition were you? (I was UMC)

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By: frog http://www.makingchutney.com/2004/01/20/losing-my-religion/comment-page-1/#comment-614 Fri, 23 Jan 2004 15:02:08 +0000 http://www.makingchutney.com/posts/2004/01/20/losing-my-religion/#comment-614 KNEW. That’s “knew.” Gah.

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By: frog http://www.makingchutney.com/2004/01/20/losing-my-religion/comment-page-1/#comment-613 Fri, 23 Jan 2004 15:01:05 +0000 http://www.makingchutney.com/posts/2004/01/20/losing-my-religion/#comment-613 You’re welcome, limpet. I knes you’d love it. ;)

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By: chutney http://www.makingchutney.com/2004/01/20/losing-my-religion/comment-page-1/#comment-612 Thu, 22 Jan 2004 15:41:58 +0000 http://www.makingchutney.com/posts/2004/01/20/losing-my-religion/#comment-612 Although I have to say, gangesfan, that my all time top favorite is your referring to HIV as “the high five.” Makes me laugh every time.

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By: gangesfan http://www.makingchutney.com/2004/01/20/losing-my-religion/comment-page-1/#comment-611 Thu, 22 Jan 2004 15:33:03 +0000 http://www.makingchutney.com/posts/2004/01/20/losing-my-religion/#comment-611 Humor is a mature defense mechanism. While that can tainted by the above, being able to laugh at ourselves, our situations, and those involved in our situation helps us to maintain professionalism and process frustration. I may refer to a patient as “gorked out,” and that may seem callous, but it helps me deal with the fact that they are gorked out and I will have to approach family with poor news.

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By: limpet http://www.makingchutney.com/2004/01/20/losing-my-religion/comment-page-1/#comment-610 Thu, 22 Jan 2004 00:39:58 +0000 http://www.makingchutney.com/posts/2004/01/20/losing-my-religion/#comment-610 Sometimes, I’m still working on the bitterness (having left the clergy in 1999), but mostly I’m just enjoying the faith of my middle age and thankful that I have come to a place where I’m appreciative of my encounters with the sacred, and of having found a new spiritual (and/or humanist) community. (and thanks, Frog)

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By: Melanie http://www.makingchutney.com/2004/01/20/losing-my-religion/comment-page-1/#comment-609 Wed, 21 Jan 2004 22:43:19 +0000 http://www.makingchutney.com/posts/2004/01/20/losing-my-religion/#comment-609 Chutney,
When the faith of your childhood fails, be glad. It is time to find the faith of your maturity.

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